If you have a habit you want to break, the key is figuring out the cues that tell your brain to start engaging in whatever the behavior is.   According to Charles Duhigg in a 
NY Times article, "experiments have shown that most cues fit into one of five categories:  location, time, emotional state, other people or the immediately  preceding action.
When the urge strikes to engage in whatever bad habit you are in, ask yourself:
- Where am I?
 - What time is it?
 - How do I feel?
 - Who else is around or what just happened?
 
Once you have a few data points recorded, you may see patterns.  Break the pattern(s), and you are more likely to succeed in breaking the habit.  Always smoke after an argument?  Try going for a walk.  Always eat tortilla chips while watching a football game? Watch the game at a different location -- perhaps a room in which you never eat, or with friends who aren't into salty snacks.
Let me know if it works!
 
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